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Post by jamesjosh on Mar 2, 2010 16:30:52 GMT
Oh and the gift is the orgasim not the sad little lie.
(That is telling them Fbs, yes now let us have some cake - okay but not if you are going to have an orgasim while you eat it) ;D
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Post by jean on Mar 2, 2010 17:02:49 GMT
The boasting is in the deception "aren't men silly we have fooled them over orgasims". Do they really say that, james? I would far rather have a real orgasm than the dubious satisfaction of fooling somebody else into believing in a fake one! But there was no orgasm... (Orga sim...is that a deliberate mistake?)
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Post by jamesjosh on Mar 2, 2010 17:29:34 GMT
No that is my spelling
I think some women have said that. And some women do see men as fools.
I know some women think they are helping men by pretending they have an orgasm but I think (as mere man) that if any person is not having an orgasm they are having a problem and for their own satisfaction try to do something about it.
Personally, I think the best orgasms are when you are on your own. I think we all deceived in having relationships with each other.
(oh go eat your cake you have now messed up this thread completely it is not my fault it is Jades - and there we have a man blaming a woman - doh)
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Post by jean on Mar 2, 2010 17:50:50 GMT
I know some women think they are helping men by pretending they have an orgasm... I believe they do, and maybe they are - but they're not helping other women, because the man says to the next woman 'What do you mean, you didn't have an orgasm? X and X and X and X and X never had any problems - they said so - there's something wrong with you (and nothing wrong with my technique).'
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Post by iamspecial on Mar 2, 2010 19:22:18 GMT
You fake it so you can just roll over and get some sleep - rather than be banged away at until you are sore. Sometimes it is much easier a "consent" to sex than put up with the grief you get for saying no.
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Post by admin on Mar 2, 2010 20:51:28 GMT
i don't understand why a woman would ever want to fake it.
if you fake it, your partner (male or female) won't know what they are missing!
and the person who's missed out will not be a happy bunny.
so what's the point?
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Post by admin on Mar 2, 2010 21:08:03 GMT
You fake it so you can just roll over and get some sleep - rather than be banged away at until you are sore. Sometimes it is much easier a "consent" to sex than put up with the grief you get for saying no. no one in a healthy relationship would put up with being banged at 'til sore. no sane woman or man would put up with 'grief you get for saying no.' sex can, in very unfortunate cases, be about selfish pleasure. love is about mutual pleasure and delight. i feel very lucky and also very sad reading this thread.
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Post by Jade on Mar 3, 2010 9:18:55 GMT
I believe they do, and maybe they are - but they're not helping other women, because the man says to the next woman ...................... Next Woman?
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Post by jean on Mar 3, 2010 10:22:56 GMT
Well, in the case I'm thinking of, the man said something like 'What do you mean you didn't orgasm? All the women I have sex with always do.'
I can tell you, he moved on to the next one pretty quickly.
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Post by Jade on Mar 3, 2010 10:25:20 GMT
My thought was a gift between two longstanding partners where the woman might not want to let the man think he had failed to delight her, when she knew both that it weren't happenieng and that it was not his fault.
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Post by jean on Mar 3, 2010 10:45:14 GMT
It's always his fault!
No, but seriously - I'd always rather say 'it didn't happen, but it doesn't matter'.
(But then, I'm a very bad liar.)
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Post by aubrey on Mar 3, 2010 22:03:33 GMT
Spesh, you're just bragging, aren't you? The usual complaint is surely the opposite.
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Post by jean on Mar 4, 2010 9:04:43 GMT
Do women really like sexual intercourse...? No. Oh, and Toad - the next time you feel like quoting me on a board I don't belong to and on which I have no means of replying, please note - it was a joke.(It's no wonder you get banned from boards, is it?)
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Post by Jade on Mar 4, 2010 9:36:35 GMT
o he didn't? ? flippin heck toad that is well nasty
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